What It Really Means When He's Texting Other Girls
The Situation
"He's texting other girls and says they're just friends"
The Brutal Truth
He's not serious about you and likely keeps his options open. Saying they're just friends is a classic move to downplay his lack of commitment. You deserve someone who values you over casual friendships with other women. Don't ignore the red flags!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start to overanalyze every interaction, thinking they need to compete for his attention or prove their worth. This behavior can lead to insecurity and self-doubt, which only promotes unhealthy dynamics. You should never feel like you have to win someone over.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of me believes I should tolerate his lack of commitment instead of demanding clarity and respect?
✨ What To Do Next
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