Why Texting While Driving is a Major Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"He texts while driving with me in the car"
The Brutal Truth
This is a clear sign of disrespect. His choice to text while driving shows he prioritizes his phone over your safety and the moment together. It indicates he’s inattentive and lacks consideration, which are critical red flags in a relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might ignore this behavior, convincing themselves it's not a big deal or that they should be grateful for any attention. This is wrong because it downplays their worth and safety, enabling disrespectful behavior.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If someone truly cares about you, how should their actions reflect that?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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