When Sharing Therapy Memes Highlights Commitment Issues
The Situation
"He shares therapy memes but refuses to book an appointment"
The Brutal Truth
He throws around therapy memes to seem self-aware but avoids real growth by refusing therapy. It’s a hollow act: he wants the appearance of emotional depth without doing the necessary work. This signals emotional unavailability and avoidance of true intimacy.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to 'fix' him by sending supportive messages or suggesting therapy, thinking they can motivate him to change. This is misplaced energy that ignores their needs and boundaries.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What habits are you holding onto that keep you stuck in patterns with emotionally unavailable partners?
✨ What To Do Next
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