What It Means When She Thinks Therapy is Just a Trend: A Dating Red Flag
The Situation
"She says therapy is trendy but never takes it seriously"
The Brutal Truth
She sees therapy as a superficial trend rather than a tool for genuine healing. This behavior indicates emotional unavailability and a lack of self-awareness, especially if she's not addressing her own issues or growth.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel the need to convince her of therapy's importance, over-explaining or seeking her validation. This is unhealthy because it places the burden on her to change while disregarding their own needs and boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How can I recognize when someone is emotionally unavailable and trust myself to walk away?
✨ What To Do Next
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