What It Means When Someone Calls You "Too Sensitive" in a Relationship
The Situation
"She said I'm too sensitive when I call out her behavior"
The Brutal Truth
When she says you're "too sensitive," she's deflecting accountability for her behavior. This minimizes your feelings, painting you as the problem rather than addressing her toxic actions. It's a major red flag that indicates emotional unavailability and a lack of respect for your boundaries.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start questioning their own feelings and apologizing for being too sensitive, thus compromising their self-worth. This is a wrong move because it allows the toxic behavior to continue and invalidates their emotional experience.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How often do you prioritize someone else's comfort over your own feelings and boundaries?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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