How Career Success Can Trigger Toxic Masculinity in Relationships
The Situation
"He uses my career success to call me masculine"
The Brutal Truth
His comment means he's insecure about his own masculinity and feels threatened by your success. Instead of celebrating you, he's belittling your achievements to maintain control and reinforce traditional gender roles.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to prove their femininity or downplay their career success to make him feel more comfortable. This is wrong because it compromises your authenticity and self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
In what ways have you minimized your accomplishments to fit someone else's expectations?
✨ What To Do Next
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