Is it Okay for Him to Book Trips with His Ex?
The Situation
"He books trips with his ex and says it's purely friendly"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior screams that he's emotionally tethered to his ex, downplaying it as 'friendly' but likely keeping you in the dark. This isn't just casual; it's a red flag for his commitment and emotional availability.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling tighter or investigate his ex's life, which not only shows insecurity but also pushes him further away. Don't feed his avoidance!
đź’ Something to Reflect On
If your best friend was in this situation, what would you encourage her to do to protect her self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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