Understanding Last-Minute Cancellations in Dating
The Situation
"She cancels plans last minute constantly"
The Brutal Truth
She doesn't respect your time or commitment. Constant cancellations mean she values her convenience over your plans. It's a lack of consideration, not just bad luck. You're not a priority for her, and it's time to evaluate your worth.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person would likely start to question their worth, overanalyze the situation, and maybe even try to win her back by being overly accommodating. This is toxic because it reinforces her behavior and diminishes your self-respect.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundary would you set if you truly valued your time and energy in this relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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