Understanding Why Some Men Avoid Making Plans in Dating
The Situation
"He said he doesn't like to plan ahead"
The Brutal Truth
This guy is telling you he’s not interested in investing time or energy into a future with you. He’s likely emotionally unavailable or just wants to keep things casual without commitment. His lack of planning is a clear indicator of his disinterest.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to change his mind or pressure him into making plans to feel secure. This is not only misguided but can push him further away and compromise her own self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do I truly need in a relationship to feel secure and valued?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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