Understanding His Pressure to Follow His Timeline for Kids
The Situation
"He expects me to follow his timeline for kids immediately"
The Brutal Truth
He's trying to control the pace of your relationship according to his desires, ignoring your feelings and timing. This shows a lack of respect for your autonomy and boundaries.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might comply or rush into a decision about having kids, fearing rejection or abandonment. This is unhealthy because it sacrifices their true needs for someone else's agenda.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of me feels obligated to prioritize his timeline over my own desires and needs?
✨ What To Do Next
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