Understanding Red Flags: He Storms Out Mid-Conversation
The Situation
"He storms out mid-conversation and disappears for hours"
The Brutal Truth
His storming out shows he can’t handle conflict like an adult. This behavior means he’s emotionally immature and likely doesn’t respect your feelings. Disappearing is a power move to keep you guessing and insecure about his intentions.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after him, apologizing for the argument. This is wrong because it reinforces his behavior and dismisses your feelings, making you feel lesser to accommodate his emotional volatility.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you need to accept chaos in order to be loved?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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