Why He Unfollowed You After a Fight: Understanding the Red Flag
The Situation
"He unfollowed me on social media after a small argument"
The Brutal Truth
His unfollowing you signals his inability to handle conflict maturely. Instead of communicating, he chooses to ghost, indicating emotional immaturity and a lack of commitment. This behavior reveals he’s not invested in a healthy relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might immediately reach out to ask why he unfollowed, hoping to mend things and gain reassurance. This is wrong because it reinforces his avoidance and minimizes your worth; you deserve someone who communicates openly, not someone who runs away.
💭 Something to Reflect On
In what ways can you recognize and prioritize your own emotional needs in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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