What It Means When He Uses Your Toiletries but Won't Restock Them
The Situation
"He uses my toiletries but won't restock them"
The Brutal Truth
This is a clear signal of selfishness and lack of consideration. He's taking from you without giving back, showing he doesn't value your time, space, or resources. He's essentially saying, 'Your needs don't matter to me.'
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-apologize, offer to buy more toiletries, or dismiss their discomfort to avoid conflict. This is wrong because it teaches him that his selfish behavior is acceptable, undermining your feelings and boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to establish to feel valued and respected in my relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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