Why Weaponizing Therapy is a Major Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"He weaponizes my therapy sessions against me"
The Brutal Truth
He's taking your vulnerability and using it to manipulate you. Instead of supporting your growth, he twists your healing journey into ammunition to undermine you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to convince him of their self-worth or apologize for being vulnerable, thinking it will make him change. This is damaging because it fuels his manipulation and reinforces the toxic cycle.
💭 Something to Reflect On
How can I set boundaries to protect my vulnerability while still being open in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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