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Why Seeing Wedding Photos Next to Yours Is a Major Red Flag

🚨Red FlagToxicity Score: 8/10
#red-flags#commitment-issues#emotional-unavailability#ex-drama

The Situation

"She keeps wedding photos on her fridge next to ours"

The Brutal Truth

Keeping wedding photos on the fridge next to yours shows they’re not over their ex or are prioritizing past relationships over you. It screams emotional unavailability and a lack of commitment, and you deserve way better than this messy situation.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person might overanalyze this behavior, thinking they need to prove their worth or compete with the ex. This only leads to insecurity and reinforces unhealthy attachment patterns, rather than encouraging a brave step back.

💭 Something to Reflect On

What does this situation reveal about my self-worth and the type of relationships I truly deserve?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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You don't have to figure this out alone. Let's work together to help you trust yourself, set boundaries, and attract the love you deserve.

Mariana - Relationship Coach

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