What To Do When He Doesn't Respond: A Guide to Texting Behavior
The Situation
"I texted him three times and he hasn't responded should I text again"
The Brutal Truth
Ignoring your messages means he's either not interested or choosing to avoid confrontation. Either way, his silence speaks volumes about his priorities and respect for you. Don't chase someone who won't acknowledge you; your time is valuable.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might send another text or overthink the silence, convincing themselves that repetitive messaging will win him over. This is wrong because it devalues your worth and pushes you into a cycle of insecurity.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes that chasing someone who doesn't respond is a sign of love or commitment?
✨ What To Do Next
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