When Promises of Parenthood Fall Flat: Understanding Mixed Signals
The Situation
"He promised to freeze sperm then never booked the appointment"
The Brutal Truth
He’s all talk and no follow-through. Promising to freeze sperm without taking action shows a lack of commitment and responsibility to your shared future aspirations. Don’t internalize his indecision as your fault; recognize it is a reflection of his unwillingness to take serious steps.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may chase after him for explanations or reassurance, thinking they can convince him to follow through. This is unhealthy because it puts their worth in his hands, leading to more disappointment. Trust your gut—his actions show where he stands.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What patterns in relationships have led you to doubt your worth when faced with someone else’s lack of action?
✨ What To Do Next
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