When They Promise to Plan But Never Do: Understanding Mixed Signals
The Situation
"She said she'll plan something but never does"
The Brutal Truth
Her saying she'll plan something but never does means she’s likely not invested or offended by the prospect of making plans. It’s a lack of follow-through that shows she’s emotionally unavailable or simply keeping her options open.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start overanalyzing every interaction, worrying about why she isn’t planning anything and trying even harder to please her. This is wrong because it leads to self-doubt instead of recognizing their own worth and standards.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would my dating life look like if I only engaged with those who show me consistent effort and interest?
✨ What To Do Next
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