Why He Won't Commit to Future Plans: A Deep Dive
The Situation
"He won't commit to future plans more than a week out"
The Brutal Truth
He’s keeping you at arm's length, hoping to keep his options open while you’re left hanging. This lack of commitment is a giant red flag - he's emotionally unavailable or afraid of intimacy, so don't ignore it!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might push for explanations or try to persuade him to make plans, wanting his affection and validation, but this only reinforces his lack of commitment. You deserve someone who is eager to invest in your future!
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of me believes that I need to convince someone to choose me?
✨ What To Do Next
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