Why He's Responding to Everyone But You: A Red Flag
The Situation
"He responds immediately to other people but not to me"
The Brutal Truth
His delayed responses to you while being quick with others scream disrespect and lack of interest. It means you don’t hold his attention, and he’s likely keeping you on the back burner. This behavior shows you’re not a priority.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might bombard him with messages, seeking reassurance and overanalyzing every interaction. This is the wrong move because it makes you appear desperate and sets a damaging precedent that your value is tied to his attention.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you need to compete for someone’s interest?
✨ What To Do Next
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