Why His Need for a 'Sign' Before Proposing is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He says he needs a sign before proposing and keeps moving the goalpost"
The Brutal Truth
His incessant need for a sign before proposing is a tactic to delay commitment. This means he is either unsure about his feelings or unwilling to take the plunge, and you shouldn't have to prove your worth to him.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsess over proving their value by trying harder to please him or seeking constant reassurance. This approach is misguided as it fosters dependency and neglects self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What in me believes I need to chase after signs to validate my worth in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
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