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Why She’s Avoiding Video Calls: Signs of Emotional Unavailability

🚨Red FlagToxicity Score: 7/10
#emotional-unavailability#mixed-signals#commitment-issues#red-flags

The Situation

"She doesn't make time for video calls"

The Brutal Truth

Her refusal to schedule video calls indicates a lack of commitment and emotional investment. It shows she’s not prioritizing your connection, which suggests she's either not that into you or emotionally unavailable. This is a red flag for a deeper issue.

❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)

An anxious person might constantly text or beg for attention, spiraling into over-analysis of every interaction. This is counterproductive and only reinforces their insecurity and neediness, pushing the person further away instead of fostering genuine connection.

💭 Something to Reflect On

What does it say about your self-worth if you’re willing to chase someone who doesn’t invest time in you?

✨ What To Do Next

Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.

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