Why She Doesn't Respect Your Time: Understanding Relationship Dynamics
The Situation
"She doesn't respect my time and expects me to drop everything"
The Brutal Truth
This behavior reveals a lack of respect for your boundaries and time. She's prioritizing her desires over your needs and expects you to be available on her terms, showing an unhealthy dynamic of selfishness.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might drop their own plans to please her, thinking this will win her approval or affection. This is a harmful pattern, as it reinforces the idea that their worth is tied to others' demands.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How would you feel if your time was always prioritized? What boundaries would you set to ensure healthy give-and-take in your relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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