Why Wanting to Chat Only at Night is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She only wants to hang out late at night"
The Brutal Truth
She’s keeping you on the back burner, only wanting to hang out late when it’s convenient for her. This screams of emotional unavailability and a lack of genuine interest. She’s more into the thrill than the commitment.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel the need to justify her behavior, convincing themselves she’s just busy or shy. This is the wrong move because it allows her to maintain control and keeps you doubting your worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would a relationship look like if you prioritized your needs first and only accepted those who value your time?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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