Why You're Still Getting Texts After a Breakup: What It Means
The Situation
"She broke up with me but still texts me"
The Brutal Truth
Her behavior indicates that she’s emotionally conflicted. She may want attention, validation, or simply doesn’t want to fully let go. This mixed messaging shows she’s not ready for a clean break and leaves you uncertain.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person may respond to her texts immediately, hoping to retain a connection, which reinforces her mixed signals. This behavior can undermine your self-worth, keeping you in a cycle of uncertainty.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you need to continue engaging with someone who has already chosen to leave?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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