Why Co-Sleeping Without Discussion is a Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"She co-sleeps without discussing it first"
The Brutal Truth
She’s disregarding your feelings and boundaries by co-sleeping without prior discussion. It shows a lack of respect for your needs and an expectation of intimacy without consent or communication.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overlook this behavior, convincing themselves it’s a sign of affection or intimacy, which is wrong because it undermines their own boundaries and signals a lack of clear communication.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to feel safe and respected in my intimacy?
✨ What To Do Next
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