Understanding Commitment Questions in Early Dating
The Situation
"She said she needs to know where this is going after two weeks"
The Brutal Truth
She's getting cautious about the relationship, and his lack of clarity indicates he may not be serious or is avoiding deeper connection. His vague responses could point to emotional unavailability or fear of commitment, which are huge red flags.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might panic and overanalyze every text, fearing rejection or abandonment, which leads them to cling tighter or pressure for clarity too soon. This approach often backfires, pushing the person away instead of fostering healthy communication.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes you need to rush towards commitment before understanding if the connection is truly compatible?
✨ What To Do Next
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