Caught Him Lying: Found His Dating Profile After He Said He’s Loyal
The Situation
"He said he's not seeing anyone else but I found his dating profile"
The Brutal Truth
He’s doubling down on lies. Saying he’s not seeing anyone else while actively dating on an app shows he’s dishonest and uncommitted. This isn’t just a minor slip; it’s a major red flag about his integrity and respect for you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might reach out repeatedly for reassurance or beg for an explanation, which only opens the door for more manipulation. This behavior stems from insecurity and can reinforce his dishonesty instead of calling it out directly.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What signals have you ignored that indicate someone isn’t honoring your worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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