What Delaying Visa Paperwork Really Means in Your Relationship
The Situation
"He keeps delaying paperwork for my visa"
The Brutal Truth
His constant delays about your visa paperwork signal a lack of commitment and respect for your future together. It’s a manipulation tactic that keeps you uncertain and waiting; a way to keep you invested without taking real action.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
Anxious individuals might desperately try to convince him to speed up the process or make excuses for his behavior, believing it's necessary to maintain the relationship. This is wrong because it compromises their self-worth and enables his lack of accountability.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What do I truly need in a partner to feel secure and respected?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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