Using Health Conditions as an Excuse not to be a Good Dad
The Situation
"She uses my health condition as proof I can't be a good dad"
The Brutal Truth
She's weaponizing your health condition to undermine your worth as a potential father. This is a major red flag. It shows she's either emotionally unavailable or has deep insecurities that lead her to manipulate you rather than support you.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might internalize this accusation, starting to doubt themselves and obsess over proving their worth. This is toxic because it allows her manipulative narrative to define their self-view, instead of recognizing her attempts to control and belittle.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How much do I value my health and worth when it comes to being a partner?
✨ What To Do Next
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