He's Divorced but Still Married: Spotting Red Flags in Dating
The Situation
"He said he's divorced but he's actually still married"
The Brutal Truth
He's lying to you. He’s using the 'divorced' label to play the field while still being in a marriage. This is a serious breach of trust and shows a complete lack of respect for both you and his spouse.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling tighter, hoping to persuade him to be honest and commit. This is wrong because it gives away your power and keeps you in a cycle of uncertainty, feeding into his lies rather than standing firm in your worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to set to ensure I'm never misled about someone's relationship status again?
✨ What To Do Next
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