Why Does She Act Distant After Intimacy? Understanding Mixed Signals
The Situation
"She acts distant after we're intimate"
The Brutal Truth
She's likely emotionally unavailable and using distance as a coping mechanism. This behavior reflects her fear of vulnerability rather than genuine disinterest. It's not about you; it's about her unresolved issues.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might obsessively reach out for reassurance, questioning their worth and seeking explanations. This often leads to more confusion and reinforces their insecurity, rather than prompting healthy boundaries.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What past experiences are influencing your reactions to intimacy and distance in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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