Why Intimacy Can Lead to Distance in Dating: Understanding the Signs
The Situation
"He distances himself after intimate moments"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior screams emotional unavailability. He draws closer physically but pulls away emotionally, fearing vulnerability. It’s a classic move to maintain control, leaving you confused and questioning your worth.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might chase after him, over-explaining their feelings in hopes of getting him to open up. This is misguided, as it places their worth in his hands rather than standing firm in their own.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of me is drawn to someone who lacks emotional availability, and what does that say about my self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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