Why Your Ex Still Acts Like Your Boyfriend: Mixed Signals Explained
The Situation
"He broke up with me but still acts like my boyfriend"
The Brutal Truth
He wants the comfort of your relationship without the commitment. This is a classic case of wanting his cake and eating it too, showing emotional unavailability and a lack of respect for your boundaries.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling harder, hoping to win him back by being overly accommodating or sacrificing their own needs. This is wrong because it only reinforces unhealthy patterns and delays your healing.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of me is willing to accept mixed signals instead of demanding clarity and respect?
✨ What To Do Next
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