What Does It Mean When He Invites His Ex to Events You're Attending?
The Situation
"He invites his ex to events I'm attending"
The Brutal Truth
He's showing you that he hasn't fully moved on. This invites unnecessary drama and insecurity into your relationship, making it clear that his past may still be a priority over your connection. You're not his backup plan; raise your standards!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel compelled to confront him about it, fearing this means he isn't serious about the relationship. This reaction can create conflict and further insecurity, steering you away from trusting your worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What boundaries do I need to set to protect my emotional well-being and self-worth?
✨ What To Do Next
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