Why FaceTiming Only on His Terms is a Major Red Flag
The Situation
"He only FaceTimes when it's convenient for him"
The Brutal Truth
He’s prioritizing his convenience over your connection. This behavior shows he lacks genuine interest and emotional investment, using you as a backup when it suits him. It’s a sign to reevaluate your worth and not settle for crumbs.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might keep reaching out to him, desperate for more connection, hoping to change his behavior. This is wrong because it perpetuates a cycle of unfulfilled expectations and self-neglect.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it feel like to only date someone who values your time as much as their own?
✨ What To Do Next
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