Why Expecting Financial Support in Dating is a Red Flag
The Situation
"He expects me to support him financially"
The Brutal Truth
He sees you as a financial crutch, not a partner. This expectation reveals his immaturity and lack of responsibility. Rather than building a mutual relationship, he's looking for someone to support his lifestyle without contributing equally.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might rush to accommodate his needs, fearing rejection or abandonment. This codependency is harmful and undermines self-worth, as it places your value in the hands of someone who doesn’t prioritize mutual respect.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
How would you feel if your partner was fully responsible for their own financial stability? What boundaries would you need to feel respected and worthy?
✨ What To Do Next
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