What It Means When She Follows Her Ex's Family on Social Media
The Situation
"She follows her ex's family and likes all their posts"
The Brutal Truth
She's still emotionally attached and may not be over her ex. Liking their posts indicates unresolved feelings or a desire for connection with that past relationship, implying she might not be fully available for something new or serious.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might start to question their worth and obsessively check if she's interacting with her ex's family, leading them to text her excessively for reassurance which can push her away even more. It’s a recipe for anxiety and mistrust.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
Do I feel secure in my relationship, or am I stuck in a cycle of seeking reassurance and validation?
✨ What To Do Next
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