What To Do When She Cheated and Wants Immediate Forgiveness
The Situation
"She cheated and wants me to forgive her immediately"
The Brutal Truth
She’s minimizing her betrayal and expecting you to dismiss your pain for her comfort. This isn't about love; it's self-serving. If she truly understood the weight of her actions, she wouldn’t expect you to rush forgiveness. Respect yourself first!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might rush to forgive, hoping to avoid confrontation and maintain the relationship. This stems from fear of being alone. It’s wrong because it sacrifices your self-respect and undermines your boundaries. Healthy love doesn’t require immediate forgiveness; it demands accountability!
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does this situation show you about your worthiness of trust and respect in a relationship?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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