When Friends Influence Your Relationship Decisions: Red Flags
The Situation
"She lets her friends influence our relationship decisions"
The Brutal Truth
His behavior shows a lack of respect for boundaries and individual decision-making. If she's letting friends dictate your relationship, it means she's unsure of her own feelings and values your relationship less than their opinions. This is toxic and undermines your connection.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to win over her friends or compromise their own needs to please her. This is wrong because it prioritizes others' opinions over your own worth and needs in the relationship.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What do I need to feel secure and supported in my relationship, and am I getting that?
✨ What To Do Next
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