When He Says He Just Wants to Be Friends but Flirts Anyway
The Situation
"He said he just wants to be friends but keeps flirting with me"
The Brutal Truth
He’s confused or manipulative. He claims he wants friendship but his actions say otherwise, creating mixed signals. This means he may not respect your boundaries or be ready for real commitment, keeping you in limbo.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might cling to his flirtation, rationalizing it as him being interested. This is wrong because it ignores his clear boundaries and may lead to more frustration and emotional instability.
💭 Something to Reflect On
If you truly valued your emotional safety, how would you respond to someone sending mixed signals?
✨ What To Do Next
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