Why Funding Luxury Travel in Dating Is a Red Flag
The Situation
"She expects me to fund luxury travel every month"
The Brutal Truth
This means she's using your resources to define value in the relationship. She’s likely more interested in your wallet than in you. If everything comes with a price tag, it’s time to reconsider your worth and boundaries.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to meet her expectations, compromising their own financial well-being and self-worth, believing that this extravagant spending will affirm their love and commitment—this is totally wrong!
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to prioritize relationships where both partners bring equal value without financial pressure?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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