Should You Give Up Your Career for Love? Red Flags to Know
The Situation
"He wants me to give up my career for the relationship"
The Brutal Truth
He wants to control your life and prioritize his needs over your ambitions. His request is a major red flag that shows a lack of respect for your individuality and career. This isn't love; it's manipulation.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might feel pressured to comply, convincing themselves that sacrificing their career will secure the relationship. This is unhealthy! Accepting such demands only reinforces toxic dynamics and undermines their self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What about this relationship makes you feel willing to compromise your career and ambitions?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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