How Guilt Over Career Focus is a Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"He makes me feel guilty for focusing on my career"
The Brutal Truth
He’s using guilt to manipulate you into prioritizing his needs over your career goals. It reveals his insecurity and fear of being left behind, forcing you to choose between your passion and his approval. That's not healthy or supportive.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to appease him by sacrificing their career or making excuses for his behavior, believing that keeping him happy is necessary for love. This is wrong because it compromises your own aspirations and self-worth.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What would it look like to fully embrace your career goals without feeling guilty for enjoying your own success?
✨ What To Do Next
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