Why He Values His Events Over Yours: A Red Flag
The Situation
"He invites me to his cultural events but dismisses mine"
The Brutal Truth
He’s using your interests to manipulate you while showing a clear preference for his own. This highlights a lack of respect and consideration for your passions, indicating he may not be truly invested in the relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might find themselves continuously trying to impress him or begging for his attention, believing that their efforts will gain them the validation they crave. This is the wrong move; it only fuels his dismissive behavior and solidifies your self-doubt.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What does it say about your self-worth if you're consistently seeking validation from someone who doesn't reciprocate?
✨ What To Do Next
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