Her Cousins Question My Religion: Is This a Red Flag?
The Situation
"Her cousins question my religion and she won't defend me"
The Brutal Truth
He's discomforted by your religion and lacks the backbone to address it with family; it's a sign of deep insecurity. If she won't stand up for you, it shows she may not value your relationship enough to defend it, and that’s a huge red flag.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-apologize or excessively try to win her approval, fearing rejection. This move is toxic because it undermines your worth and perpetuates a cycle of seeking validation from others instead of asserting your self-respect.
💭 Something to Reflect On
When has someone else's opinion held more importance than your own worth in your relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
Every situation has nuance. What you see here is a general pattern, but your specific circumstances matter.
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