Her Dad's Salary Grilling: What It Means for Your Relationship
The Situation
"Her dad grills me about my salary every visit"
The Brutal Truth
Her dad's questioning your salary shows he likely views financial stability as crucial. This reflects a possible underlying judgment about your worth or potential, signaling traditional values that could turn into stress in your relationship.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overexplain their salary or try to impress him, thinking it will secure approval. This is wrong because it shifts focus from your value to external validation, undermining your self-worth.
đź’ Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes that financial validation is a measure of your worth in relationships?
✨ What To Do Next
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