Why Do Her Friends Think I’m Not Good Enough?
The Situation
"She said her friends don't think I'm good enough for her"
The Brutal Truth
Her friends think I’m not good enough, and that reflects her own insecurity. She’s likely seeking validation from them instead of making her own choices. If she feels this way, she might not see my worth, and that's a red flag!
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might over-apologize or try to impress her friends to seek approval, which only makes them look desperate. This behavior erodes self-worth and doesn’t address the fundamental issue: she should be the one to decide if you're good enough, not her friends!
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of me feels unworthy of love and acceptance just as I am?
✨ What To Do Next
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