Why Hiding Your Religious Beliefs is a Major Red Flag in Dating
The Situation
"She hides my religious books when guests visit"
The Brutal Truth
She’s ashamed of your faith and attempting to erase it from social situations. This behavior reveals a lack of respect for your identity and potential manipulation of your beliefs to fit her comfort zone.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might overcompensate by trying to convince her that religion isn’t that important or minimize their own beliefs to avoid conflict. This is unhealthy as it implies sacrificing self-respect for acceptance.
💭 Something to Reflect On
What prevents you from dating someone who fully embraces all aspects of who you are, including your beliefs?
✨ What To Do Next
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