His Mom Dislikes You: Red Flag or Simple Family Dynamics?
The Situation
"He said his mom doesn't like me and he agrees with her"
The Brutal Truth
He’s letting his mom’s opinion dictate your value. This reveals his insecurity and lack of commitment to you. If he truly valued your relationship, he wouldn’t let external influences undermine your worth.
❌ What NOT to Do (Anxious Response)
An anxious person might try to overcompensate by winning over his mother to prove their worthiness. This rarely works and puts them in a submissive position instead of addressing the core issue: if he can't stand up for you, is he worth your energy?
💭 Something to Reflect On
What part of you believes that your value is affected by someone else's opinion?
✨ What To Do Next
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